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Monday, November 9, 2009

Kosong....

Just quoting this from one of my college's blog. Its very true, I believe....

"Love is not easy to handle. It is not about holding hands only, it is not about sending sms only, it is not about listening to sweet words only...Love is about being there during happy and sad moments. Love is about sacrificing, love is about having the feeling in your heart, in your blood, in your adrenalin. Love is about you getting ready to face all obstacles with your partner. Love is about feeling good to see him next to you in bed, next to you in the car, next to you when you eat and in front of you when you pray together. Love is about fighting and yet laughing at our stupid words during all those fighting moments. Yes, I miss my partner in crime. The feeling is so strong, which put me in a very sad situation especially during the first few months of our marriage. I cried so many times when I miss him, as if I was such a stupid child who lost her kitten. The hurt is so deep especially during moments when I need him most, by my side."

Ya Allah, aku terima ujianMU ini seadanya, Kau berikanlah aku kekuatan menempuh hari-hari mendatang...Amin

8 comments:

Liya said...

maya... usah kata yg bbrp bulan.. yg dah nk 10 yrs kawin ni pun stilll rasa the same thing... menangih gak bila x tahan rindu..

kita perlu tempuhi nya... dan bukan kita shj yg menghadapi situasi ini...ramai lagi di luar sana..

Mama Afnan said...

Setuju dengan k liya.. Aku dah kenal Asrul lama jgk, dah kawin lama jugak, but the feeling of rindu2an itu tetap ada.. Quoting mak mentua aku sblm datang sini, and prior to the temporary lengthy seperation; "Bila rindu terlalu kuat, tiada siapa dapat tolong kita kecuali Allah".. Banyak2 bersabar ya..

MaYa ZaiNaL said...

tu lah...terima kasih atas nasihat kawan2ku yang berpengalaman ni....doakan saya di sini kuat menempuhi cabaran2 org berjuang ni...amin

Anonymous said...

dear maya, let yr feeling flows but don't over dose... coz it will hurt.. just be strong .. but we have to know tht we're not living in bed of roses... many obstacles ahead us.. and we must know tht nothing greater than loving Allah...

Irin said...

dear maya, all of us will lead a different love life , some sweet and some sour and many obstacles ahead us along the journey ... always remember nothing greater than our loves to Allah...tht wl make u strong mt dear...

Jasmin said...

maya... akak rasa mcm maya hebat/kuat jek coz bleh lalui situasi yg begini...

DIA yg MAHA hebat coz DIA lebih tahu kehebatan dan kekuatan maya... apa yg maya lalui ni sebenarnya sesuai dgn kemampuan maya untuk mendepaninya..

"pahit akan manis jua akhirnya.." semoga maya terus kuat.. terus kebal.. terus tabah... dan sentiasa bersemangat...

MaYa ZaiNaL said...

thanks kak jas....rasa kadang2 tak mampu je nak teruskan, mmg selalu kena motivate diri sendiri, sekali dah melangkah, jgn pusing balik, teruskan perjuangan hingga ke akhir...remind diri sendiri, 2 tahun tu kejap je....tapi kadang2 tewas juga...tambah2 bila tgh stress dgn phd, doakan saya kak jas, pada Allah saja tempat mengadu...semoga doa family dan kawan2 menjadi pemangkin semangat buat saya di sini...insyaAllah

jasmin said...

sudah sunnah org berjuang maya..
Semoga Allah sentiasa merahmatimu... amennn